In "The Wanderer" by Robyn Carr, the protagonist has consciously steered clear of romantic entanglements to protect himself from emotional pain. His past experiences with love have left him fearful of the potential heartache that can arise from rejection. This avoidance stems from a desire to escape the deep sorrow and sleepless nights that come from failed relationships.

As a result, he has prioritized his emotional well-being, opting for solitude over the risk of feeling profound loneliness and disappointment. This strategy reflects a broader theme of self-preservation and the complexities of navigating love, where the fear of being hurt can overshadow the desire for connection.