In Joy Kogawa's "Aunt," the complexity of silence in relationships is deeply explored. The character reflects on the shared experience of being lost in silence with a maternal figure, which reveals how their inability to communicate ultimately led to their mutual downfall. This "wordlessness" suggests that the lack of dialogue can be as damaging as overt conflict, highlighting the importance of expressing feelings and thoughts in nurturing relationships.

Through this poignant observation, Kogawa emphasizes the profound impact of unspoken words. The silence experienced by the characters not only signifies emotional distance but also encapsulates their struggles and vulnerabilities. Their shared understanding of this silence, while destructive, also reveals a bond that despite its flaws, signifies deep-seated connections, illuminating the delicate balance between communication and isolation in human relationships.