In the conversation between Hugh and another character, they reflect on Connie's emotional change after a significant event, expressing concern for Tom. Connie, who has taken on numerous responsibilities, including her role as president of the Women’s Conservative Association, seems to be mentally preoccupied and forgiving Tom for past grievances that he was unaware even existed. This shift in her attitude may negatively impact her ability to fulfill her community duties.

The discussion reveals a broader observation about people who undergo significant personal transformations; they often do not seem as agreeable as they once were. There is a sense of nostalgia for their former selves, implying these changes may lead to less kindness or a more self-absorbed disposition, which affects their interactions and relationships within the community.