Growing up, I was utterly oblivious to the fact that Mom was teaching me all that. But I was instantly aware of her final lesson, which was hidden in her notes and leters. As I read them I began to understand that in the end you are the only one who can make yourself happy. More important, Mom showed me that it is never too late to find out how to do it.
In her book "Not Becoming My Mother: And Other Things She Taught Me Along the Way," Ruth Reichl reflects on the lessons imparted by her mother without her realizing it during her childhood. Growing up, Reichl was unaware of the wisdom her mother shared through everyday experiences and interactions. It was only upon discovering her mother's notes and letters that she grasped the deeper messages about happiness and self-fulfillment.
Reichl emphasizes a pivotal lesson: that true happiness is a personal responsibility that each individual must cultivate for themselves. Her mother exemplified that it’s never too late to embark on the journey toward happiness, highlighting the importance of self-discovery and the continual pursuit of joy throughout life.