Haters want us to hate them, because hate is incapacitating. When we hate, we can't operate from our real selves, which is our strength. Now that I think of it, this is such a great reason to give up our hate-as revenge, to deprive the haters of what they want.
Anne Lamott discusses the debilitating nature of hate in her book "Almost Everything: Notes on Hope". She suggests that those who inspire hatred seek to incapacitate us, preventing us from accessing our true selves, which are sources of strength and resilience. This notion highlights how hate can detract from our potential and hinder personal growth.
By recognizing that hatred benefits only the one who is hated, Lamott encourages us to relinquish such feelings. Letting go of hate can serve as a form of empowerment, allowing individuals to reclaim their strength and operate from a place of authenticity rather than being driven by negative emotions.
