Her tragedy hadn't made her more approachable, and in fact lent her the unknowable quality of a person who had suffered more than could be expressed.
In "The Virgin Suicides," the character's tragedy creates an air of mystery around her, making her even less accessible to those around her. Rather than drawing people in, her deep suffering sets her apart, leaving others unable to fully understand her pain. This profound experience gives her an enigmatic quality that complicates human connection.
The impact of her sorrow becomes a barrier, illustrating how trauma can isolate individuals. Her experiences, too profound for words, prevent her from relating to others, highlighting the profound and isolating nature of suffering.