In Albert Camus' reflections from "Notebooks 1935-1942," he explores the complex dynamics between men and women regarding emotional connection. He comments on how difficult it is for women to receive affection from men that lacks genuine love, emphasizing the emotional burden it creates. This tenderness, though it may seem kind on the surface, becomes unbearable when it is not rooted in deeper feelings.

For men, this situation presents a bittersweet experience as well. They may wish to express tenderness, but when such affection is not matched by love, it creates a poignant tension. Camus captures the intricate emotional landscape, suggesting that both genders grapple with the implications of affection that cannot evolve into true intimacy.