When I was young, I expected from people more than they could give: neverending friendship and constant excitement.Now I expect less than they can actually can give: to stay close silently. And their feelings, friendship, noble deeds always seem like a miracle to me: a true grace.
In his writings from "Notebooks 1935-1942," Albert Camus reflects on the evolution of his expectations from relationships over time. As a youth, he sought profound and continuous connections, filled with thrill and unwavering support. This approach often led to disappointment as he placed undue demands on those around him.
As he matured, Camus learned to adjust his expectations, finding value in quieter, more subdued interactions. He began to appreciate the small gestures of friendship and kindness, recognizing them as rare and significant gifts. This shift allowed him to see genuine affection and noble actions as moments of grace, revealing a deeper understanding of human relationships.
