In "Engleby," Sebastian Faulks explores the protagonist's evolving relationship with others and his growing acceptance of social interactions. He realizes that by reducing his expectations of people, he can engage with them more freely and authentically. This shift in perspective allows him to navigate conversations with less pressure and more ease, leading to a more relaxed social life. The protagonist's ability to let his mind drift into neutral during discussions symbolizes a coping mechanism for dealing with social discomfort. By adopting this mindset, he can focus less on the content of what others are saying and more on the experience of being present with them, thus enhancing his social interactions. This evolution indicates a profound change in his approach to relationships and self-awareness.

In "Engleby," Sebastian Faulks explores the protagonist's evolving relationship with others and his growing acceptance of social interactions. He realizes that by reducing his expectations of people, he can engage with them more freely and authentically. This shift in perspective allows him to navigate conversations with less pressure and more ease, leading to a more relaxed social life.

The protagonist's ability to let his mind drift into neutral during discussions symbolizes a coping mechanism for dealing with social discomfort. By adopting this mindset, he can focus less on the content of what others are saying and more on the experience of being present with them, thus enhancing his social interactions. This evolution indicates a profound change in his approach to relationships and self-awareness.