The protagonist recognizes her friend Luke's intentions in trying to reconcile her with Suze. Although she finds his effort endearing, she feels uncomfortable with the situation. She likens her feelings to that of a panda being forced to mate with another panda that is not interested, highlighting her reluctance and the awkwardness of the situation.
This quote reflects the complexities of friendships and the pressure that can arise when one person tries to mediate. While Luke’s intentions may come from a place of care, the protagonist feels that the pressures of forced connection do not always lead to positive outcomes, making her less than thrilled about the prospect of rekindling her relationship with Suze.