I long ago learned that one's illnesses are both pleasanter and more useful if one keeps their exact nature to himself: one's friends, uncertain as to the cause of one's queer behavior and strange sufferings, impute to one a mysteriousness often subtly convenient.
In "The Floating Opera," John Barth suggests that keeping the specifics of one’s illnesses private can be advantageous. By not disclosing the exact nature of one’s ailments, a person can encourage friends and acquaintances to develop a sense of intrigue. This mystery can lead to greater understanding and support from others, who may not fully grasp the situation but still sense something deeper.
This approach to illness not only makes one feel more enigmatic but also provides a layer of convenience in social interactions. Friends attribute strange behaviors and discomforts to an air of mystery, allowing the individual to navigate their struggles without the pressure to explain or justify themselves fully. This perspective highlights how the perception of illness can be influenced by the way it is presented to others.
