I'm not a disciplinarian. I understand the need for discipline, of course, but I'm just not good at it. I'm not talking about hitting-I don't think any parent should ever hit a child-but about setting the rules and sticking by them. How to punish without taking away love-that's the great art. I wished that I could do it, but I was trapped by the most ironic dichotomy: I was afraid that if I set rules and drew lines and enforced discipline, Katie would take her love away from me.
In his book "Kiss Me Like a Stranger," Gene Wilder reflects on his struggles with discipline as a parent. He acknowledges the importance of discipline but admits he finds it challenging to implement. His perspective emphasizes the delicate balance of enforcing rules while maintaining a loving relationship with his child, Katie. He believes that love should not be contingent on discipline, yet he fears that establishing boundaries might lead to a rift in their bond.
Wilder expresses his internal conflict, wishing he could master the art of discipline without jeopardizing his connection with Katie. His concerns highlight a common parental dilemma: how to guide children effectively without compromising their affection. This insight reveals a profound struggle many parents face, caught between the need for rules and the desire for emotional closeness.
