In "The Memoirs of Cleopatra," the author highlights the unique position of Cleopatra as a foreign queen in a predominantly male-dominated society. Unlike Roman women, who were often confined to domestic roles as wives and caretakers, Cleopatra had the authority to summon and engage with men in matters beyond household concerns. This contrast illustrates her exceptional status and the limited opportunities available to other women of her time, who were not afforded similar power.

Cleopatra reflects on the implications of her role, recognizing that her ability to command and advise was a rarity among women in Rome. She expresses a sense of disappointment that there weren't more women who could occupy such positions of authority, suggesting that a larger presence of women in power could have enriched discussions and decision-making processes. This thought underscores her awareness of gender dynamics and the potential for greater female influence in society.