In "Shopaholic to the Stars," Sophie Kinsella highlights the complexities of seeking advice from others. The protagonist reflects on how conversations with people can often lead to confusion and additional problems, suggesting that sometimes, the input of others may not be beneficial. Instead, there is value in turning to an abstract presence or belief system for clarity.

The idea of speaking to "the void" or "your God" implies a search for solace and understanding beyond human interaction. When overwhelmed, it can be more helpful to engage with a concept or force that offers comfort and perspective without the complications that come from interpersonal relationships.