I used to think--and given the way we ended up, maybe I still do--that all relationships need the kind of violent shove that a crush brings, just to get you started and to push you over the humps. And then, when the energy from that shove has gone and you come to something approaching a halt, you have to look around and see what you've got. It could be something completely different, it could be something roughly the same, but gentler and calmer, or it could be nothing at all.
In Nick Hornby's book "High Fidelity," the narrator reflects on the nature of relationships and the role that intense emotions, like those experienced during a crush, play in their development. He suggests that these passionate feelings act as a catalyst, propelling people into connections that might otherwise remain unformed. The initial spark is essential to start a relationship, but once the excitement fades, individuals must assess what remains of their bond.
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