In Roxane Gay's book "Hunger," she reflects on her personal experiences regarding safety and vulnerability. She expresses that she has never faced life-threatening situations and has always felt capable of escaping if necessary. This leads her to consider her experiences in relation to others, particularly women, who might not share the same sense of security.

Gay acknowledges that her situation could be seen as fortunate compared to the challenges faced by many women who encounter fear and danger more routinely. This contrast highlights the varying realities women experience, prompting a deeper reflection on issues of safety, privilege, and the often-unseen struggles faced by others.