Nora Ephron, in her book "I Feel Bad About My Neck: And Other Thoughts on Being a Woman," eloquently expresses the profound sense of loss she feels after losing her best friend. She describes her desire to reconnect, wishing to share lunch and discuss a book that her friend recently cherished. This longing highlights the deep bond they shared and how much her friend's absence is felt in her life.

Ephron uses the metaphor of a "phantom limb" to convey the idea that the memory of her friend still lingers with her, creating an emotional ache akin to losing a part of oneself. This reflection illustrates not only the pain of absence but also the significance of friendship and connection in shaping one's identity and experiences. The heartfelt sentiments resonate with anyone who has faced similar losses.