In her analysis, Rebecca Traister illustrates how women often navigate systems that are inherently biased against them. Hillary Clinton's experience is highlighted as an example of a woman trying to succeed in a political landscape that largely benefits men. By attempting to conform to the established norms, Clinton found herself at a disadvantage, effectively making her victory more challenging. This reflects a broader issue where the structures in place do not accommodate or support women’s aspirations.

Traister emphasizes the importance of recognizing and harnessing women's anger as a powerful force for change. Instead of seeking approval from a male-dominated system, women might find strength in their dissatisfaction to challenge the status quo. The tension between playing by existing rules and advocating for a transformative approach underscores the need for a collective shift in perspective on women's roles in society and politics.