In Roxane Gay's "Bad Feminist," she references the character Amy from "Gone Girl," highlighting the complexities faced by women in relationships. Amy represents the struggle against conforming to male expectations, portraying the temptation of being the perfect partner who never challenges her partner's preferences or opinions.

However, Amy ultimately resists this urge, choosing authenticity over compliance. This reflection underscores Gay's larger commentary on feminism, emphasizing the importance of individuality and the rejection of societal pressures that dictate how women should act to be deemed likable.