It hurts to live after someone has died. It just does. It can hurt to walk down a hallway or open the fridge. It hurts to put on a pair of socks, to brush your teeth. Food tastes like nothing. Colors go flat. Music hurts, and so do memories. You look
The experience of losing someone dearly impacts every aspect of life, making even the simplest tasks feel overwhelming. Walking through familiar spaces or engaging in daily routines can trigger profound pain and melancholy. Everyday actions, like preparing meals or dressing, can become reminders of the loss, amplifying the feeling of emptiness.
The emotional weight of grief alters perceptions, rendering food tasteless and draining vibrancy from the world. Activities that once brought joy, such as music or reminiscing, can evoke sorrow instead. Michelle Obama's reflections in "Becoming" highlight how deep the wounds of such loss can be, affecting the most mundane elements of life.