It is most comfortable to be invisible, to observe life from a distance, at one with our own intoxicating superior thoughts. But comfort and isolation are not where the surprises are. They are not where hope is.
In her book "Stitches: A Handbook on Meaning, Hope, and Repair," Anne Lamott reflects on the human tendency to seek comfort in invisibility and isolation. She suggests that while it may feel safe to observe life from a distance, this detachment prevents us from experiencing the fullness of life. The allure of superior thoughts can create a false sense of security, leading us away from genuine connection with others.
Lamott emphasizes...