The quote "It's always good to start off anything by breaking a rule" reflects the idea that challenging conventions can lead to innovation and creativity. In her memoir, Sigrid Nunez explores the life and influence of philosopher and writer Susan Sontag, who frequently pushed boundaries in her work and thought. Sontag's courage to defy norms paved the way for new ideas and conversations in literature and culture.

Nunez's book invites readers to consider the importance of questioning established norms and the transformative power of doing so. By examining Sontag's life, Nunez emphasizes how these actions can create a deeper understanding of self and society. The memoir serves as a tribute to Sontag's legacy, encouraging a spirit of exploration and a willingness to embrace change.