It's funny: I always imagined when I was a kid that adults had some kind of inner toolbox, full of shiny tools: the saw of discernment, the hammer of wisdom, the sandpaper of patience. But then when I grew up I found that life handed you these rusty bent old tools-friendships, prayer, conscience, honesty-and said, Do the best you can with these, they will have to do. And mostly, against all odds, they're enough.
In her reflections on adulthood, Anne Lamott humorously contrasts the idealized vision of adulthood with the reality she experienced. As a child, she fancied that adults possessed a perfect set of shiny tools for navigating life—symbols of wisdom, discernment, and patience. However, upon growing up, she discovered the truth: the tools given to us are often rusty and imperfect, representing the more nuanced and challenging aspects of life. This realization signifies a shift from childhood fantasies to the complexities and imperfections of real life.
Despite the condition of these metaphorical tools—friendships, prayer, conscience, and honesty—Lamott highlights their value. She conveys optimism, asserting that these imperfect resources are often sufficient to guide us through life's challenges. Her perspective is a reminder that while we may not possess ideal solutions, the tools we have can still lead to meaningful and fulfilling experiences, often enough to help us persevere and thrive.
