In her book "Why Not Me?", Mindy Kaling explores the deep emotional impact of friendship changes, particularly how a best friend can transition to merely being a friend. This idea is unsettling, emphasizing the thin line between friendship and acquaintance. The intimacy of a best friend feels vastly different compared to that of a standard friend, which amplifies the sense of loss when such a relationship shifts.

Kaling reflects on the significance of close relationships, noting that the bond with a best friend involves shared experiences and vulnerabilities that aren’t present with typical friendships. This shift can create feelings of trauma, as the depth of connection makes the loss all the more profound, highlighting the importance of cherishing and nurturing these close ties.