In Mindy Kaling's book "Why Not Me?", she reflects on the emotional depth of friendships, particularly the concept of a best friend contrasted with a regular friend. The idea that someone so close could transition to a lesser status is unsettling and evokes a sense of trauma. This transition highlights the delicate nature of deep relationships and how significant these bonds can feel.

Kaling emphasizes that while acquaintances and friends may share similarities, the bond with a best friend is vastly deeper and more meaningful. Losing that connection can create a profound sense of loss, illustrating the unique and irreplaceable role that best friends play in our lives.