In "High Lonesome: Selected Stories, 1966-2006," Joyce Carol Oates reflects on the theme of loss, emphasizing that every community and family has its own narratives of struggle and resilience. The phrase "It was a very American story, somehow," captures the essence of the individual and collective experiences that define the American identity, as they often intertwine loss with the pursuit of meaning and connection.
Oates suggests that the concept of being "lost" resonates deeply within society, illustrating how personal and familial hardships contribute to a broader tapestry of shared experiences. Her stories invite readers to explore the complexities of life and the universal truths that emerge from the specificities of individual lives.