In Nick Hornby's book "Everyone's Reading Bastard," the author explores the complexities of relationships, particularly the romantic ones that often seem effortless at first glance. He highlights how the initial charm of interactions, especially with an attractive partner, can mask the deeper struggles that arise later in life. The phase of attraction is often overshadowed by daily responsibilities and the realities of building a life together.

Hornby delves into the notion that while it’s simple to show kindness during enjoyable moments, the true challenges emerge with the demands of family life. The routine of marriage and parenthood can lead to feelings of weariness and monotony, overshadowing the once-vibrant connection between partners. Ultimately, the passage suggests that the effort to maintain love in a long-term relationship is profound and complex, requiring more than just initial attraction.