It would become hard to explain, later on in her life, just what was okay in that time and what was not. You might say, well, feminism was not. But then you would have to explain that feminism was not even a word people used. Then you would get all tied up saying that having any serious idea, let alone ambition, or maybe even reading a real book, could be seen as suspect, having something to do with your child's getting pneumonia, and a political remark at an office party might have cost your husband his promotion. It would not have mattered which political party either. It was a woman's shooting off her mouth that did it.
In her work "Dear Life," Alice Munro explores the complexities of societal norms related to women's roles in earlier times. She highlights the challenge of retroactively defining what was acceptable or unacceptable behavior for women. The term "feminism" was not even commonly recognized, yet the understanding of women’s ambitions or intellectual pursuits during that period automatically came with risks. Even simple acts of self-expression could lead to serious repercussions for a woman and her family, illustrating how restrictions were deeply woven into the fabric of society.
Munro captures the tension of navigating personal desires against societal expectations, where aspirations could be viewed as transgressions. The idea that a woman's opinions or interests could have dire consequences for her family's social standing underscores the oppressive environment women faced. Through her writing, Munro sheds light on the struggles and constraints that shaped women's lives, ultimately emphasizing the importance of understanding historical context in discussing women's rights and feminism.