Lee comforts Aron by acknowledging the struggles of growing up, suggesting that this phase often tests us deeply. He reflects on the feeling of being scrutinized by others, where we perceive our flaws as glaring and our virtues as idealized. This intense self-awareness can lead to a sense of despair as we grapple with our inner turmoil.
However, Lee encourages Aron to find solace in the idea that emotions and circumstances are not as extreme as they appear. He emphasizes that the reality of life is more balanced, offering a perspective that things will eventually improve. Though his words may not provide immediate comfort, he urges Aron to consider the possibility of a more nuanced understanding of his experiences.