love was a form of blindness that closed the eyes to the most glaring faults. You could love a murderer, and simply not believe that your lover would do so much as crush a tick, let alone kill somebody. There would be no point trying to dissuade her.
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The quote from Alexander McCall Smith's "The No. 1 Ladies' Detective Agency" suggests that love can obscure one's judgment, making it difficult to see the flaws or wrongdoing in a loved one. It implies that love can create a kind of ignorance where, despite knowing a partner's negative traits, one chooses to overlook them. The depth of affection can even lead individuals to deny or rationalize serious issues, such as a partner's potential for violence.

This notion highlights the complexity of human emotions and relationships, where the bond of love may prevent objective evaluation. It illustrates the powerful grip love has over perception, leading individuals to live in a state of denial about their loved ones' actions. This theme resonates deeply in discussions about loyalty and the challenges of recognizing the truth in emotionally charged situations.

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How sorry she felt for white people, who couldn't do any of this, and who were always dashing around and worrying themselves over things that were going to happen anyway. What use was it having all that money if you could never sit still or just watch your cattle eating grass? None, in her view; none at all, and yet they did not know it. Every so often you met a white person
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How sorry she felt for white people, who couldn't do any of this, and who were always dashing around and worrying themselves over things that were going to happen anyway. What use was it having all that money if you could never sit still or just watch your cattle eating grass? None, in her view; none at all, and yet they did not know it. Every so often you met a white person
The sun went, and it was dark. He sat beside her in the comfortable darkness and they listened, contentedly, to the sounds of Africa settling down for the night. A dog barked somewhere; a car engine raced and then died away; there was a touch of wind, warm dusty wind, redolent of thorn trees.
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The sun went, and it was dark. He sat beside her in the comfortable darkness and they listened, contentedly, to the sounds of Africa settling down for the night. A dog barked somewhere; a car engine raced and then died away; there was a touch of wind, warm dusty wind, redolent of thorn trees.
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He also spends a lot of my money on vitamin pills and biltong.
No sailor could be lonelier than a man standing in the middle of our land, with the miles and miles of blue about him.
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No sailor could be lonelier than a man standing in the middle of our land, with the miles and miles of blue about him.
And God was here anyway, before the missionaries came. We called him by a different name, then, and he did not live over at the Jews' place; he lived here in Africa, in the rocks, in the sky, in places where we knew he liked to be.
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And God was here anyway, before the missionaries came. We called him by a different name, then, and he did not live over at the Jews' place; he lived here in Africa, in the rocks, in the sky, in places where we knew he liked to be.
love was a form of blindness that closed the eyes to the most glaring faults. You could love a murderer, and simply not believe that your lover would do so much as crush a tick, let alone kill somebody. There would be no point trying to dissuade her.
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love was a form of blindness that closed the eyes to the most glaring faults. You could love a murderer, and simply not believe that your lover would do so much as crush a tick, let alone kill somebody. There would be no point trying to dissuade her.
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