In her book "Molly Ivins Can't Say That, Can She?", Molly Ivins recounts a thought-provoking encounter between the renowned Canadian author Margaret Atwood and two groups at a university—one of women and one of men. The women expressed their fears about potential violence from men, highlighting the serious and often dangerous concerns they hold in society. Their anxieties revolve around issues such as physical abuse and life-threatening situations, underscoring the real threat many women feel daily.

Conversely, the men in the discussion articulated their fears stemming from social judgment, primarily that women might ridicule or laugh at them. This stark contrast reveals the different lenses through which the genders perceive threats and vulnerability, shedding light on the complexities of gender dynamics and societal expectations. Atwood's inquiries highlight the deep-rooted fears that inform how men and women interact in mutual spaces.