In Robert A. Johnson's book "She: Understanding Feminine Psychology," he discusses the significant role that women play in validating men's self-worth. He suggests that men often derive their deepest sense of value from the women in their lives, whether it's their mothers, wives, or significant others. This relationship is crucial as it helps men recognize their own worth and encourages personal growth.

Johnson emphasizes that the acknowledgment and support from women illuminate the paths men take in understanding themselves. Particularly for those who are more self-aware, this recognition can also come from their inner anima, a vital aspect of their psyche. The metaphor of lighting a lamp illustrates how women can reveal and reflect a man's inherent value, instilling confidence and clarity in his identity.