The marriage between the narrator and Kincaid proves to be more complex than initially anticipated. While there is love, underlying disagreements complicate their relationship. The narrator's desire to influence Kincaid's beliefs becomes a point of tension.
The discussion reveals a common theme, where women often seek to change the perspectives or behaviors of the men they care for. This observation resonates with Dougal, showing that this dynamic is recognized in relationships, highlighting the intricacies of love and partnership.