my secret is: even though I wish I could be thin, and that I could have the ease of lifestyle that I associate with being thin, I don't wish for it with all of my heart. Because my heart is reserved for way more important things. I will leave you with one last piece of advice, which is: If you've got it, flaunt it. And if you don't got it? Flaunt it. 'Cause what are we even doing here if we're not flaunting it?
In her book "Why Not Me?", Mindy Kaling shares her thoughts on body image and self-acceptance. She expresses a desire to be thin and the lifestyle that comes with it, but notes that her longing is not a central priority in her life. Instead, her heart and passions are devoted to more important pursuits, emphasizing that while physical appearance is a concern, it shouldn't overshadow deeper values.
Kaling further advises readers to embrace and celebrate their own uniqueness, regardless of societal standards of attractiveness. Her mantra is straightforward: if you have confidence or traits to showcase, do it; and if you feel you don't, still flaunt what you have. This perspective encapsulates a joyous embrace of self-acceptance and an insistence on living life fully, encouraging everyone to appreciate their individuality.