not so heartbreaking. So it was with me after Tom's death. In retrospect, I look at myself and my friends and I think that some of us are offered early warnings. The death of a loved one, a serious illness, the struggle of a marriage, or the despair of loneliness-as tragic as these events are, they serve to box us in as clearly as any clever plot structure, forcing us to make a choice. I choose to live. Each day to the hilt. I want to hug my children close, kiss my lover passionately, attack my work, relish my books, and laugh heartily or blubber like a baby with my friends. Isn't life grand?
The author reflects on the profound impact of loss, particularly after the death of a friend named Tom. This experience, while painful, has led to a deeper appreciation for life. The author observes that such tragedies, including illness and loneliness, serve as reminders to focus on what truly matters, prompting important life choices.
In embracing life fully, the author chooses to cherish relationships, engage passionately with work, and find joy in everyday moments. There is a sense of celebration and gratitude for being alive, highlighting how adversity can lead to a renewed perspective on life’s beauty.
