In Roxane Gay's book "Bad Feminist," she explores the idea that a likable character is often portrayed as someone who adheres to societal norms and expectations. This character's likability typically stems from their ability to follow the established rules, suggesting that they value conformity and the opinions of others.

This observation highlights a broader commentary on how traits associated with likability can sometimes reinforce the status quo. Characters who seek approval by playing by the rules may appear more relatable or acceptable, even if this conformity stifles authenticity and deeper complexity.