People act on what they want more often than what they need.

People act on what they want more often than what they need.

📖 Mark Goulston

🌍 American | 👨‍💼 Psychologist

🎂 February 21, 1948

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Our actions are frequently driven by desires and impulses rather than fundamental needs. While needs are essential for our survival and well-being, wants often influence our choices and priorities, sometimes leading us away from what is truly necessary. Recognizing this tendency can help us make more mindful decisions, ensuring that our actions align more closely with our core needs rather than fleeting desires. Understanding this dynamic encourages self-awareness and responsible behavior, ultimately fostering healthier relationships and a more authentic pursuit of happiness.

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