In her work, George Eliot suggests that individuals who are geographically distant from us tend to be viewed more positively than those closer to us. This perspective points to a natural inclination to idealize those we do not interact with frequently, as we are less aware of their flaws and shortcomings. The separation allows for a more romanticized and less critical view of these distant individuals.

Eliot’s insight implies that proximity can lead to greater scrutiny and, perhaps, disappointment. When we are closely involved with someone, their imperfections become evident, making it easier to judge them negatively. Therefore, our judgments about people may be influenced by how much we know about them and the extent of our interactions.