Perhaps behind our occasional hostility toward the artist and writer there may be a slight tinge of jealousy. The man or woman who for the sake of family life, children, takes up work he does not like, disciplines himself, sacrifices some fantasy he had once, to travel or to paint, or even possibly to write, may feel toward the artist and writer a jealousy of his adventurous life. The artist and the writer have generally paid the full price for their independence and for the privilege of doing work they love, or for their artistic rebellions against standardized living or values.
In reflecting on our attitudes towards artists and writers, Anaïs Nin suggests that our occasional resentment may stem from a sense of envy. Those who conform to societal expectations and take on roles that may not fulfill them might feel a pang of jealousy toward artists and writers who pursue their passions without compromise. This contrast highlights the sacrifices made by individuals to achieve stability for their families while longing for the adventurous lives of creatives.
Nin emphasizes that artists and writers have often endured significant challenges to gain their independence and pursue their true vocations. Their willingness to go against the grain and embrace a non-traditional life reflects a dedication to their craft, which can invoke feelings of jealousy in those who have chosen a more conventional path. Thus, our perception of their freedom may be intertwined with our own unfulfilled desires and sacrifices.