Roxane Gay's book "Bad Feminist" discusses the pervasive nature of rape humor and its implications on societal views of women. She argues that such jokes serve as a cruel reminder of the inequalities that persist between genders, reinforcing the notion that women are often subjected to violence and objectification. This type of humor trivializes serious issues and contributes to a culture that diminishes women's experiences.
By using humor to address or downplay the severity of sexual violence, society sends a message that women are still not on equal footing with men. Gay emphasizes the harmful impact of these jokes, which can perpetuate a mindset that ignores the seriousness of sexual assault. Ultimately, she calls for a deeper understanding of how language and humor affect perceptions of gender inequality, urging for a shift towards more respectful and empowering discourse.