Show me someone sick and happy, in danger and happy, dying and happy, exiled and happy, disgraced and happy. Show me! By God, how much I'd like to see a Stoic. But since you can't show me someone that perfectly formed, at least show me someone actively forming themselves so, inclined in this way…. Show me! -EPICTETUS, DISCOURSES, 2.19.24–25a, 28
In a powerful reflection, the author expresses a desire to witness a truly Stoic individual, someone who maintains happiness amidst suffering, danger, and adversity. This longing illustrates the challenge of finding individuals who embody Stoicism's ideals completely. The emphasis is on resilience and the ability to cultivate joy and peace in the face of life's hardships, a trait that seems increasingly rare in contemporary society.
Moreover, the passage encourages the pursuit of self-improvement and the active shaping of one’s character in alignment with Stoic principles. Even if a perfect Stoic may not exist, the pursuit of such ideals is valuable. It prompts readers to focus on their own development, striving for a mindset that embraces tranquility and strength, regardless of external circumstances.