{T}here can be a form of vanity in grief that is indulged rather than suffered.
In Iain M. Banks' "Look to Windward," the author explores the complexity of grief, suggesting that it can sometimes manifest as a form of vanity. This perspective highlights the idea that individuals may dwell in their sorrow, not as a means of healing, but as a way to seek attention or validation from others. Such indulgence can hinder the genuine process of grieving, turning it into a spectacle rather than a...