That's what meditation is all about: to be capable of being alone. And remember, aloneness is not loneliness. Loneliness is the state of a person who cannot live alone; loneliness means you are dependent on the crowd, on others. Aloneness means you are happy with yourself, you are not dependent on anybody. The moment you are not dependent, you are an emperor, you are a god, a goddess. Now you have something to share, you can go into the world.
**Meditation and self-sufficiency are foundational to true happiness and inner peace. When we learn to be comfortable in our own company, we develop a deep understanding of ourselves, which enhances our confidence and sense of identity. This independence from external validation allows us to experience life more authentically, free from the need to seek constant approval or connection to fill a void. Such self-reliance creates a profound inner strength—an empowering sense of completeness that emanates from within, not from external circumstances or people. The distinction between loneliness and aloneness is crucial; loneliness is driven by dependency, a fear of being alone, a feeling of incompleteness without others. Aloneness, on the other hand, is a conscious state of contentment where one enjoys one’s own company, recharges, and reflects. In this state, a person can remain open and compassionate, sharing authentically with others because their sense of worth is not anchored solely in external relationships. Developing this inner independence is not about isolating oneself but about cultivating a balanced state where personal fulfillment preexists social interaction. When we reach such a state, we are empowered to connect genuinely with others, sharing our richness from a place of fullness, not need. This perspective transforms how we relate with the world, making our interactions richer, more meaningful, and rooted in true generosity—since we are not approaching others from a place of deprivation, but from abundance."
---Osho---
