The accuracy of my memories, whether things happened exactly the way that the personalities remember, doesn't really matter. If my memory, combined with the memories of the other personalities, provides some coherent past, then that is far better than the blankness I have. Whatever inaccuracies may occur because of the passage of time or because of the colored intensity of "emotional truth" harm no one. All that matters is that I gain a firm grasp on what is real. {165}
The author discusses the nature of memory and its reliability, particularly in the context of living with multiple personalities. They emphasize that the exactness of their recollections is less important than having a coherent understanding of their past. The amalgamation of their memories, alongside those of other personalities, creates a narrative that helps fill the void of forgetfulness and aids in their personal understanding.
Furthermore, they acknowledge that some inaccuracies may arise over time or due to emotional influences, but these inaccuracies do not cause any harm. The crucial aspect is achieving a sense of reality that helps them navigate their experiences. By focusing on emotional truths rather than strict facts, they find empowerment in their mixed recollections, ultimately contributing to their identity and self-awareness.
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