The death of self-esteem can occur quickly, easily in children, before their ego has legs, so to speak. Couple the vulnerability of youth with indifferent parents, dismissive adults, and a world, which, in its language, laws, and images, re-enforces despair, and the journey to destruction is sealed.
The concept of self-esteem in children is fragile and can deteriorate swiftly, especially when they are young and still developing their sense of identity. This vulnerability is exacerbated when children are surrounded by indifferent caregivers or dismissive figures in their lives, leading to feelings of worthlessness and despair. The impact of negative familial and societal influences can significantly impede a child's emotional well-being.
Toni Morrison's "The Bluest Eye" illustrates how external factors, such as societal norms, laws, and media portrayals, can further exacerbate the struggles of youth. These elements create an environment where despair is normalized, effectively constraining the child's self-worth and fostering a journey towards emotional destruction. As they lack the support to build resilience, these children become trapped in a cycle of low self-esteem and hopelessness.
