There's only so long you can feel sorry for a person before you come to feel that their affliction is an act of malice committed by them against you.
The quote from Margaret Atwood's "Stone Mattress: Nine Tales" reflects a complex emotional response to someone else's suffering. Initially, one may feel compassion and empathy for a person in distress. However, over time, this sympathy can shift into resentment, leading to the perception that the afflicted person's struggles are burdensome and intentionally inflicted on others.
This transformation in feelings highlights the limits of empathy, suggesting that when someone’s problems persist, it can create a burden on those around them. The idea that affliction can feel malicious underscores the emotional strain that can arise in relationships where one person’s troubles seem to overwhelm and negatively affect others.
