In his book "The End of Memory," Miroslav Volf discusses how reflecting on the Passion of Christ allows individuals to cleanse their memories of past wrongdoings. He emphasizes that one's identity should not be tied to the injustices suffered, as this causes a cycle of blame directed at the wrongdoer. Instead, he advocates for a healthier perspective that frees individuals from living in the shadow of their past experiences.
Volf argues that one's sense of self should not come from a misguided notion of personal innocence either, as this can lead to irrational self-justification. By focusing on the redemptive aspect of memory, as seen through the lens of the Passion, individuals can find healing and liberation from the cycle of pain and resentment, enabling them to forge a true sense of identity independent of both past suffering and false justifications.