In "Shopgirl," Mirabelle perceives being the focus of someone's obsession as an intoxicating symbol of deep affection. This notion excites her, as she equates it with experiencing a profound and unique form of love. Nevertheless, she overlooks the darker aspects of such obsession, particularly the motivations underlying it.

Many men who become fixated on women like Mirabelle are driven by a desire to possess them, wanting to keep them away from others rather than to love them wholly for who they are. Their infatuation often centers on superficial qualities, revealing a longing for a particular aspect of her allure instead of a true emotional connection. This misunderstanding complicates her view of love and desire.