In "The Rosie Project" by Graeme Simsion, the protagonist reflects on the conventional methods of dating that his peers adhere to. He has chosen to move away from these traditional strategies due to his realization that they often lead to more frustration than fulfillment. The negative outcomes he has experienced outweigh any potential benefits of engaging in such approaches.

This perspective highlights a broader theme in the book: the pursuit of love and connection can sometimes be misguided when based on outdated norms. The character's journey is about finding a more suitable way to relate to others, which ultimately challenges the established dating practices that he has come to reject.