We all spend so much time not saying what we want, because we know we can't have it. And because it sounds ungracious, or ungrateful, or disloyal, or childish, or banal. Or because we're so desperate to pretend that things are OK, really, that confessing to ourselves they're not looks like a bad move. Go on, say what you want. ... Whatever it is, say it to yourself. The truth will set you free. Either that or it'll get you a punch in the nose. Surviving in whatever life you're living means lying, and lying corrodes the soul, so take a break from the lies for just one minute.
In this excerpt from Nick Hornby's "A Long Way Down," the author reflects on the tendency of people to refrain from expressing their true desires. He explains that individuals often suppress their wants due to fears of appearing ungrateful, disloyal, or immature. This self-censorship stems from a desire to maintain a facade of contentment, even when reality is different. It highlights the inner conflict between wanting honesty and the impulse to avoid discomfort or judgment.
Hornby encourages readers to confront their true feelings by acknowledging their desires openly. He asserts that doing so can lead to liberation, suggesting that honesty, even if it leads to difficult consequences, is ultimately more fulfilling than living a lie. The message is one of self-acceptance and the importance of being true to oneself, emphasizing that confronting uncomfortable truths can be a powerful step towards personal freedom.
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